I think it’s better to take a chance on something/someone new than to settle for something old bc its comfortable and tolerable…
I think so many of us are afraid of Change. Although, we wish for it, we are afraid of it. It’s like shaking up a jar of jelly beans that are stacked by color and when you shake them they are arranged and appear different.
No one likes the unknown.. What will this decision change, what if it’s the wrong one, will I regret it? These are all normal feelings of change. But, if you have a strong feeling something needs to change to complete your happiness then you’re the only one that can make that choice. The feeling might be uncomfortable at first and there might me days you can’t stop thinking… you have made a mistake. But, you must have faith that God gave you this choice for a reason and trust that he has a plan for you.
This whole change thing can be with a relationship, a job, a friend, moving to a new home, moving to a new city, etc. This can relate to every aspect of your life.
I will tell you this. We are given one shot at this life. The opportunity rather it’s a relationship or something else will most likely be offered to you once maybe a few more times but it will not be there forever. If you are unhappy and are just settling because you don’t want to shake the jar.. You are probably missing out. Start with the man in the mirror and make a change. #justdoit